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Lesson 3-1 – The Elements Of A Biblical Counseling Session

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Lesson 3: Man’s Way & God’s Way
Welcome to Lesson 3: Man’s Way & God’s Way
The heart of Biblical Counseling is that it is counseling that flows from God’s Way
and not Man’s Way. This month’s lessons will be all about our spiritual orientation
and Biblical priority for understanding and living life.
First, we need to work on our mutual accountability with the G.R.O.W. card. This
card states that we are maintaining our daily walk in four areas:

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G (My Devotions): Get the Word into our lives on a daily basis. This means I
choose to take over my schedule and plan a daily application of the Word to my life
(My Devotions);
R (My Prayers): Reach out for the power of the Spirit by faith. This means I
choose to focused, regular prayers for the grace and power to see God change me,
and the others into whose lives I am called to investing my life (My Prayers);
O (My Sanctification): Open my life to the sanctifying work of the Holy
Spirit.
This means I choose to plan regular memorization of the Word for Spirit-filled
meditation, so that He can change me a little bit more each day (My Sanctification);
W (My Ministry): Willingly opening the Word to others. This means I choose to
prayerfully look for others that God will prepare and help me to nurture and
admonish; which are the two elements of Biblical Disciple making and Counseling (My
Ministry).

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Now, open to Lesson 3 and page 48. Look at the boxed summary and follow
along as I read:
Learning to live God’s way requires you to respond to God’s salvation through
His Son, Jesus Christ. Then, you are to begin a new way of living based on the
Lord’s truth, resources, and wisdom rather than your own or anyone else’s
wisdom, philosophy, or experience (based on Proverbs 3:5-6; John 14:6,
Romans 10:9-10, 13, 17; 12:1-2; 2 Corinthians 5:21; Colossians 2:6-10;
James 3:13-15).

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Last month we ended with a look at:
The Elements of a Biblical Counseling Session
Step One: Determine Their Spiritual Orientation
Establish the person’s orientation about their spiritual life.
God says we are an immortal spirit that lives within a temporal human body.
We are waiting the time when we’ll be clothed upon with our celestial body
when we see Christ and become like Him (I Cor. 15).
This orientation explains many facets of how we view life. If problems are seen
in the long view of eternity, they are just a small part of the picture (Paul
called life a “light, momentary affliction” 2 Cor. 4:17).

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Step Two: Check out their Spiritual Life Priority
Establish whether the person has come to view God and His Word, or culture and other
humans as the Alpha and Omega of their life (Rev. 1:8; Mat. 6:33).
Do God and His Word have the “first and last” place in their life?
Is their first place to look for help, comfort, guidance, wisdom, direction and
strength: God through His Word, or mankind and society’s advice?
Is God the first and most important advice as well as the last word and most weighty
voice in their life?
Jesus spoke of the house built upon the Rock. Paul talked about being carried away
by every wind that blows by (Eph. 4:14). James says beware of double-mindedness
(James 1:8).
Who we listen to and follow their advice determines so much about our condition
emotionally, spiritually, and ultimately physically.
For each of us, we need to do a check of where we look for the guidance, the
foundational truths that guide us as we interpret life events.

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Is Jesus Christ the Alpha & Omega of our Spiritual
Lives?
Do we start our day with God?
Is He the One we look to and check in with, and ask for His help, direction,
strength, and peace?
Or do we start with a dose of the news, the weather, the social media, and the
goals of our material world life that dominates so much of our schedules and
energies?

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Do we end our days with God?
Do we measure our successes or failures by His unchanging standard of His
Word?
Do we allow Him to correct us, encourage us, renew and redirect us?
Do we cast all of our cares one by one upon Him as a loving and caring father,
and rest in His protection and care before we slip into the defenseless, helpless
unconsciousness of sleep?
A life that begins and ends with God as Master, Savior, Redeemer, and Friend is
hemmed in by truth, and is very likely to not unravel when troubles come.

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Is the Bible Foundational to All We Are?
Now, look at the boxed summary at the top of page 49:
You can live God’s way because of the abundant resources and provisions He has
graciously and mercifully given to you (based on John 14:26; Romans 8:11; 2
Corinthians 1:20-24; Ephesians 1:13-14; Philippians 4:13; Colossians 4:2; 1
Thessalonians 5:16-18; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; James 1:5; 1 John 5:14-15).
The Bible is Adequate (Principle 4): Since God’s Word is the only authority for faith
and conduct and is the sole, legitimate standard by which all aspects of living are
evaluated, you are to rely on no other source. God’s Word provides hope and gives
direction for change in deeds (thoughts, speech, and actions) and is adequate to
equip you for every good work (
Psalm 19:7-11; Pr. 30:5-6; Col. 2:8; 2 Timothy
3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12; 2 Peter 1:2-4) and to develop a Christlike attitude of
servanthood within you (2 Cor. 3:5-6; Phil 2:5-8).

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Study on Psalm 19:7-11
Psalm 19:1-6 is all about God revealing Himself in nature. Every detail of this
vast and intricate Universe speaks of an amazingly glorious Creator God.
Psalm 19:7-11 is all about God’s Special revelation through His Word. When we
read these words from God in our small group time we will find:
Six statements about Scripture:
Six titles for Scripture:
Six characteristics of Scripture:
Six effects of Scripture:
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All six have the phrase, “of the Lord”.
Six times, “of the Lord, of the Lord, of the Lord, of the Lord, of the Lord, of the
Lord,” just in case someone might question the source. This is the law of the
Lord. This is the testimony of the Lord and so forth. This has divine origin. It is
the inspired revelation of the Lord God himself.

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Counseling Workshop
Phone Call, Sunday 4PM. Details: grandmother said grandson, baptized at 9, left
church as teen, wayward, divorced, fired from job, now unemployed, foreclosed
house. Please talk to him.
What would you say?
Where would you start?
Does God have a plan for him?

 
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