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971221AM James 1.19-27 Anger

“THREE KEYS TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY”

JAMES 1:19-27


James this morning is exhorting us. He says, hearing of the Word must
be followed by obedience; truly accepting God’s Word logically means
doing it. This spiritual logic was given memorable illustration by Chuck
Swindoll in his book Improving Your Serve
1:
Let’s pretend that you work for me. In fact, you are my executive
assistant in a company that is growing rapidly. I’m the owner and I’m
interested in expanding overseas. To pull this off, I make plans to
travel abroad and stay there until the new branch office gets
established. I make all the arrangements to take my family in the
move to Europe for six to eight months, and I leave you in charge of
the busy stateside organization. I tell you that I will write you
regularly and give you direction and instructions.
I leave and you stay. Months pass. A flow of letters are mailed from
Europe and received by you at the national headquarters. I spell out
all my expectations. Finally, I return. Soon after my arrival I drive
down to the office. I am stunned! Grass and weeds have grown up
high. A few windows along the street are broken. I walk into the
receptionist’s room and she is doing her nails, chewing gum, and
listening to her favorite disco station. I look around and notice the
waste baskets are overflowing, the carpet hasn’t been vacuumed for
weeks, and nobody seems concerned that the owner has returned. I
ask about your whereabouts and someone in the crowded lounge area
points down the hall and yells, “I think he’s down there.” Disturbed, I
move in that direction and bump into you as you are finishing a chess
game with our sales manager. I ask you to step into my office (which
has been temporarily turned into a television room for watching
1
Swindoll, Improving your serve, p. 170-71.
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afternoon soap operas).
“What in the world is going on, man?” “What do ya’ mean … ?”
“Well, look at this place! Didn’t you get any of my letters?”
“Letters? Oh, yeah – sure, got every one of diem. As a matter of fact
… we have had letter study every Friday night since you left. We have
even divided all the personnel into small groups and discussed many
of the things you wrote. Some of those things were really interesting.
You’ll be pleased to know that a few of us have actually committed to
memory some of your sentences and paragraphs. One or two
memorized an entire letter or two! Great stuff in those letters!”
“Okay, okay – you got my letters, you studied them and meditated on
them, discussed and even memorized them. BUT WHAT DID YOU DO
ABOUT THEM?”
“Do? Uh – we didn’t do anything about them.”I
Such behavior is professionally absurd. It is, in fact, professional
suicide! But how much less absurd are we when we hear God’s Word
without the slightest inclination to obey it? At the very least we are
self-deceived. This is why James follows his call to be hearers with the
command of verse 22: “Do not merely listen to the word, and so
deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” If we are going to profit from
God’s Word, we must accept and do it.
Everyday we train our selves to be either: lying or truthful; selfish or
giving; angry or forgiving; impure or pure; irritable or patient;
greediness or generosity; pride or humility; materialism or simplicity.
What are you becoming today? Dawson Trottman founder of the
Navigators once said, “You are going to be what you are right now
becoming!”
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ATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A DISCIPLINED LIFE. V.19-21
v. 19 UNDERSTAND ANGER BEFORE YOU SPEAK
v. 20 SEEK GOD’S PLAN ABOVE YOUR OWN
v. 21 PROTECT THE HEALTH OF YOUR SOUL
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ATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A TEACHABLE SPIRIT. V22-25
v. 22 COMMIT TO LIVING OUT YOUR FAITH
v. 23 AVOID HYPOCRISY IN YOUR LIFE
v. 24 END ANY CASUAL APPROACH TO YOUR DEVOTIONS
v. 25 BECOME A BLESSED DOER
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MATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A WITNESSING LIFE V. 26-27
v. 26 BY MAINTAINING AN UNOFFENDING TONGUE
v. 27a BY CULTIVATING AN UNHARDENED HEART
V. 27b BY PRESERVING AN UNSOILED LIFE
MATURING SAINTS HAVE A DISCIPLINED LIFE. V.19-21
v. 19 UNDERSTAND BEFORE YOU SPEAK 19 So then, my beloved
brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath
In Psalm 64:3 Who sharpen their tongue like a sword,
And bend their bows to shoot their arrows—bitter words,
Here the tongue is called “a sword.” This sword has certainly
damaged, bruised, wounded, and killed more people than all the
swords in all the wars since history began.
“Angry words, O let them never From the tongue, unbridled slip.
With the soul’s best impulse Ever check them,
Ere they soil the lips.
Angry words are quickly spoken,
Bitter thoughts are rashly stirred,
Fondest links of life are broken,
By a single angry word.”
In the old days we heard wise sayings like “Keep your tongue between
your teeth” and “Think twice before you speak once.” The Scottish
people have some proverbs, too: “Keep your tongue a prisoner and
your body will go free” and “A long tongue shortens friendships.” My
mother would also tell us, “Remember, one day you’ll answer to God
for every word you say.”
Today you and I each spoke an enormous number of words. Talking at
normal speeds through a normal day our words would fill a 150 Page
Book. In just one years talk we have produced 132 X 400 Page Books!
Some facts about anger.
¾ The average man looses his temper six times a week.The average
woman three times a week.
¾ Women get more often angry at people, men get more angry at
things — flat tires, machines, dull razors, etc.
¾ Single adults express anger twice as often as married adults.
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¾ At home is where we are most likely to express our anger. Anger is
most frequent and intense towards those we love, not towards
strangers.
Anger is a very normal human reaction. Jesus got angry. In the Old
Testament it says 375 times that God got angry. The Bible says, “In
your anger, don’t sin.” There’s a right way and a wrong way to get
angry. There’s a harmful way and a helpful way.
Four ways people commonly express their anger. These are learned
responses. Everybody expresses anger in the way they learned to
express it. Some of you learned it from your parents, some of you
from television, from friends, your wife/husband. You’ve learned how
you respond. Someone has given titles to the four typical responses.
Picture yourself as one of these four.
1. THE MANIAC: explodes like a walking time bomb, a hair trigger
temper, out of control. When he gets angry, she gets angry. Let it
fly, throw things, cuss, yell, stomp up and down, throw a temper fit. A
powder cage. A good example in the Bible of the exploder, the
maniac, is Cain, who was the first murderer. Genesis 4:5, 8, “Cain
became furious and he scowled in anger. And while they were in the
field, Cain attacked [circle “attacked”] his brother Abel, and killed
him.” This type of person immediately regrets their anger, they’re
embarrassed, they regret what they’ve said and what they’ve done.
They apologize. They’re ashamed. We all know this type of anger.
2. THE MUTE: is the exact opposite. This is the silent type. Holds it,
clams up instead of blowing up. They will not admit that they’re angry.
They conceal how they feel. This is the crock pot version of anger —
stewing and simmering and all on the inside. When I swallow my
anger my stomach keeps score. This person is susceptible to high
blood pressure, ulcers, headaches, tension headaches, backaches, all
kinds of things. All kinds of illnesses can be traced to bottled up anger.
There is a man, Dr. F. I. MacMillan, who wrote None of These
Diseases, who has listed 51 types of illnesses that can be caused by
bottled up anger, being emotionally upset and holding it in. A good
example of this is Jeremiah, the weeping prophet.
Jeremiah 15:17-18 I did not sit in the assembly of the mockers, Nor
did I rejoice; I sat alone because of Your hand, For You have filled me
with indignation.18 Why is my pain perpetual And my wound
incurable, Which refuses to be healed? Will You surely be to me like an
unreliable stream,
As waters that fail? NKJV
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Jer. 15:17-18 “I stayed by myself [Circle this. This is the key phrase
of the mute.] and was filled with anger. Why do I keep on suffering?
Why are my wounds incurable? Why won’t they heal?” I’m holding it
in and it’s killing me! Have you heard anyone say, “That burns me
up!” They’re right. It’s not so much what you eat that counts, it’s
what eats you. The anger on the inside.
3. THE MARTYR: is pro at pity parties. He is self punishing and
passive. Whenever somebody gets angry he says, “It must be my
fault. What’s wrong with me?” His favorite words are “I
should…must… have to… ought to…” The number one sign of a
martyr is depression. Depression is just internalized anger most of the
time. Anger internalized becomes depression. A good example is the
prodigal son in Luke 15:28 “The elder brother was so angry he would
not go in [circle this] to the party. So his father went out and pleaded
with him.” The problem with the martyr is he makes everybody else
miserable.
4. THE MANIPULATOR: the Lee Iococco version of anger. When he
was fired by Ford his famous line was, “Don’t get mad. Get even.”
The manipulator approach is the key to most television plots. “I will
figure out a way to get you back!” They retaliate in an underhanded
way through sarcasm, jibes, indirect contact. This is the person who
burns your toast, makes you late, forgets things you told them, or
teases you hurtfully and then says, “Can’t you take a joke?” Religious
people often choose this form because it seems more spiritual than
just exploding. While I will be very nice to you, I will cut you behind
your back. That’s the manipulator approach. Pretending to be nice,
you try to get even. A good example is the Pharisee in Luke 6:11 “But
they were furious and began to plot with each other what they might
do to Jesus.” Circle “plot”.
Everybody gets angry, just in different ways. You are one of those
ways. All four of these ways are learned and the good news is they
can be unlearned. You can change. You can make a difference in your
life, with God’s help.
v. 20 SEEK GOD’S PLAN ABOVE YOUR OWN
“for the wrath of man
does not produce the righteousness of God”.
v. 21 PROTECT THE HEALTH OF YOUR SOUL “Therefore lay aside
(lit. ‘strip off’) all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and
receive
(eagerly sitting at Christ’s feet) with meekness the
implanted word
(James quotes 21 Old Testament books and alludes
to 15 verses in the Sermon on the Mount in only 108 verses! taking
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root and bearing fruit), which is able to save your souls (not from
damnation but damage of sins).
¾ Ephesians 4:22 that you put off, concerning your former conduct,
the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts,
¾ Colossians 3:8 But now you yourselves are to put off all these:
anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your
mouth.
¾ Hebrews 12:1Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so
great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the
sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the
race that is set before us,
¾ 1 Peter 2:1-2 Therefore, laying aside all malice, all deceit,
hypocrisy, envy, and all evil speaking,2 as newborn babes, desire
the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby,
MATURING SAINTS HAVE A TEACHABLE SPIRIT. V. 22-25
v. 22 COMMIT TO LIVING OUT YOUR FAITH: But be doers of the word,
and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves
v. 23 AVOID HYPOCRISY IN YOUR LIFE 23 For if anyone is a hearer of
the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing (casual glance;
like looking at your watch but not really seeing the time!) his natural
face in a mirror;
v. 24 END ANY CASUAL APPROACH TO YOUR DEVOTIONS 24 for he
observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of
man he was.
v. 25 BECOME A BLESSED DOER 25 But he who looks (new word
expressing careful, earnest, steady gaze) into the perfect law of liberty
and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the
work, this one will be blessed in what he does
¾ perfect is the perfection of the sufficient word
¾ liberty because only Christ can set us free
I saw more clearly than ever, that the first great and primary
business to which I ought to attend every day was, to have my
soul happy in the Lord. The first thing to be concerned about
was not, how much I might serve the Lord, how I might glorify
the Lord; but how I might get my soul into a happy state, and
how my inner man may be nourished…. I saw that the most
important thing I bad to do was to give myself to the reading of
the Word of God and to meditation on it.
George Mueller of Bristol
MATURING SAINTS HAVE A WITNESSING LIFE V. 26-27
v. 26 MAINTAIN AN UNOFFENDING TONGUE “If anyone among you
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thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his
own heart, this one’s religion is useless.”
v. 27a CULTIVATE AN UNHARDENED HEART “Pure and undefiled
religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows
in their trouble,”
¾ Sodom was destroyed for violence, arrogance, indifference idleness
and indulgence. Ezekiel 16:48-50 “As I live,” says the Lord God,
“neither your sister Sodom nor her daughters have done as you and
your daughters have done. 49 “Look, this was the iniquity of your
sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and
abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the
poor and needy. 50 “And they were haughty and committed
abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit.
NKJV
¾ v. 27b PRESERVE AN UNSOILED LIFE “and to keep oneself
unspotted from the world.”
HOW CAN I DEVELOP SELF-DISCIPLINE
2 IN MY LIFE?
1. LOVE YOUR CRITIC: Accept Correction. Correction helps make you
more disciplined because it shows you what you need to avoid.
Don’t avoid criticism, accept it gladly. -Proverbs 15:32 He who
disdains instruction despises his own soul, But he who heeds rebuke
gets understanding.
2. WHIP THE BIG ONES: Do The Hardest Job First. Doing that will
prevent the hardest jobs from being left undone. Proverbs 22:29 Do
you see a man who excels in his work? He will stand before kings;
He will not stand before unknown men.
3. TRAIN YOUR BODY: Practice Self-Denial. Learn to say no to your
feelings. Occasionally deny yourself things that are all right just for
the purpose of mastering yourself. Learn to do what you know to be
right even if you don’t feel like doing it. Cultivating discipline in the
physical realm will help us become disciplined in our spiritual lives.
Ecclesiastes 5:1 Walk prudently when you go to the house of God;
and draw near to hear rather than to give the sacrifice of fools, for
they do not know that they do evil.
4. START NOW: Start Small. Start with your room. Clean it, then keep
it clean. When something is out of place, train yourself to put it
where it belongs. Then extend that discipline of neatness to the rest
of your home. Song of Solomon 2:15 Catch us the foxes, The little
foxes that spoil the vines, For our vines have tender grapes.
2
Richard Shelly Taylor, The Disciplines Life, p. 81-102.
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5. WELCOME THE YOKES OF LIFE: Welcome Responsibility. When you
have an opportunity to do something that needs to be done,
volunteer for it if you have a talent in that area. Welcoming
responsibility forces you to organize yourself. Lamentations 3:27 It
is good for a man to bear The yoke in his youth.
6. CULTIVATE PUNCTUALITY: Be On Time. That may not sound very
spiritual, but it’s important. If you’re supposed to be somewhere at
a specific time, be there on time! Develop the ability to discipline
your desires, activities, and demands so that you can arrive on
time. Romans 12:11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit,
serving the Lord;
7. REDEEM THE TIME: Organize Your Life. Plan the use of your time;
don’t just react to circumstances. Use a calendar and make a daily
list of things you need to accomplish. If you don’t control your time,
everything else will! Ephesians 5:16 redeeming (“to pull from the
market place”) the time, because the days are evil.
8. FLEE INTO HIS PRESENCE: Worship brings us to the very presence
of God. There we receive healing, cleansing, holiness, and purity.
This was the message of Charles Wesley when he wrote:
“Jesus, Lover of my soul,
Let me to Thy bosom fly
While the nearer waters roll,
While the tempest still is high!
Plenteous grace with Thee is found,
Grace to cover all my sin;
Let the healing streams abound,
Make and keep me pure within.”
Too often, in the throes of guilt and condemnation, we have turned
and hidden ourselves from our source of healing and forgiveness.
We have forgotten Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no
condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk
according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
NKJV
¾ Condemnation has driven us away from the very Balm that
would heal our souls!
¾ Condemnation will rob us of the blessed purification that will
come through worship.
¾ Condemnation is a whirlpool that will siphon our spiritual vitality
until we are consumed. The more we abstain from worship, the
greater the separation between us and God. It is our blessed
privilege as God’s redeemed to draw near to Him in times of sin
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and uncleanness and receive of the cleansing power that flows
from His presence.
PLUNGE INTO GOD’S RIVER OF LIFE THROUGH HIS SPIRIT: By faith
we can partake of the very river that flows from the throne of God.
The Psalmist wrote of that river, “There is a river whose streams make
glad the city of God” (Ps. 46:4). This is an allusion to the water of
Siloam whose several different courses ran underneath and through
Jerusalem and supplied the city with water. Similarly the Holy Spirit
provides us with renewing waters as we worship from our innermost
beings. Through our worship, the river of God washes over our souls
with cleansing and refreshment. When Ezekiel was caught up in this
divine river, the waters rose from his ankles to his knees and then to
his waist, until he could no longer walk in the current. During this
experience, Ezekiel was told, “And it shall be that every living thing
that moves, wherever the rivers go, will live. There will be a very great
multitude of fish, because these waters go there; for they will be
healed, and everything will live wherever the river goes. ” (Ezek. 47:9
NKJV). As the river of God begins to flow during our times of worship,
it brings life, abundance, and healing, washing over broken hearts and
restoring parched souls.
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“THREE KEYS TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY” JAMES
1:19-27
~~NOTESHEET~~
Everyday we train our selves to be either: lying or truthful; selfish or
giving; angry or forgiving; impure or pure; irritable or patient;
greediness or generosity; pride or humility; materialism or simplicity.
What are you becoming today? Dawson Trottman founder of the
Navigators once said, “You are going to be what you are right now
becoming!”
MATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A DISCIPLINED LIFE. v.19-21
v. 19 __________________ BEFORE YOU SPEAK
v. 20
____________ GOD’S PLAN ABOVE YOUR OWN
v. 21
_____________ THE HEALTH OF YOUR SOUL
MATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A TEACHABLE SPIRIT. V22-25
v. 22 _____________ TO LIVING OUT YOUR FAITH
v. 23
_____________ HYPOCRISY IN YOUR LIFE
v. 24
____ ANY CASUAL APPROACH TO YOUR DEVOTIONS
v. 25
_____________ A BLESSED DOER
MATURING SAINTS GROW WITH A WORSHIPING HEART V. 26-
27
v. 26 ______________________ YOUR WHOLE SELF
v. 27
_____________________LIFE-LONG HOLINESS
HOW CAN I CULTIVATE SELF-DISCIPLINE IN MY LIFE?
1.
LOVE YOUR CRITIC: Accept Correction. Proverbs 15:32 He who
disdains instruction despises his own soul, But he who heeds rebuke
gets understanding.
2. WHIP THE BIG ONES: Do The Hardest Job First. Proverbs 22:29 Do
you see a man who excels in his work? He will stand before kings;
He will not stand before unknown men.
3. TRAIN YOUR BODY: Practice Self-Denial. Learn to say no to your
feelings
. Ecclesiastes 5:1 Walk prudently when you go to the house
of God; and draw near to hear rather than to give the sacrifice of
fools, for they do not know that they do evil.
4. START NOW: Start Small. Song of Solomon 2:15 Catch us the
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foxes, The little foxes that spoil the vines, For our vines have tender
grapes.
5. WELCOME THE YOKES OF LIFE: Welcome Responsibility.
Lamentations 3:27 It is good for a man to bear The yoke in his
youth.
6. CULTIVATE PUNCTUALITY: Be On Time. Romans 12:11 not lagging
in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord;
7. REDEEM THE TIME: Organize Your Life. Ephesians 5:16 redeeming
(“to pull from the market place”) the time, because the days are
evil.
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